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It’s important to get familiar with the words they like being used to describe their body parts,” says Kova. I think the definition of “kinky” has been warped because of a culture that simultaneously upholds and opposes sex and glorifies it in media and celebrity culture. Just be sure to communicate with your partner before sex to understand their level of interest in this kind of touch. Wading into the world of dirty talk can feel a little daunting or unfamiliar for newbies, but there are plenty of ways to learn. Not only do they want to please you in bed, which adds to their kinkiness, but they also want to make sure you’re genuinely happy in all aspects of your life.

Follow us on Instagram Facebook Twitter Pinterest and we promise, we’ll be your lucky charm to a beautiful love life. If you’re thinking about having a threesome or already tried it, why not throw another person into the mix? And millennials might be having less sex, but we’re definitely doing it “differently,” be it long distance technology or kinky. Born in the Finger Lakes region of New York, she now lives in southeastern Massachusetts with her own personal hero and a clowder of exceedingly large cats.Her erotic novels include Restless Spirit, Boys Next Door, Big Bad, Learning to Drown, Wanderlust and the Zombie Exterminator series . This confidence also makes them very secure women who won’t be jealous or petty about silly things, either. They feel so good about themselves that when they finally get the chance to take it all off and show you what they have, they do so in the best and kinkiest ways. Incorporate these words into phrases that describe what you'd like to do in the future, what you are doing in the moment, and what you have done before that feel arousing to you.

Figure out which words you and your partner(s) enjoy using and hearing and communicate these with the other person ahead of time,” says Kat Kova, a registered psychotherapist who specializes in individual, couple, and sex therapy. Then they can increase in kinkiness, for example, striptease for master, stick your ass in the air, crawl on master, etc.For example, you may be turned off by someone saying cock but turned on by someone using the term dick.